fix(rbac): fallback lookup for staff records predating Better-Auth userId (#140)

GRO-153: /api/staff returned 403 for all staff because resolveStaffMiddleware
looked up by staff.userId (Better-Auth ID) but dev login sent staff.id (PK),
and existing staff records had userId=NULL.

Changes:
- resolveStaffMiddleware: try userId first, fall back to staff.id (dev mode)
- resolveStaffMiddleware: try userId first, fall back to oidcSub (production)
- GET /api/dev/users: include userId field for DevLoginSelector
- DevLoginSelector: send userId (not staff.id) as X-Dev-User-Id
- Migration 0018: backfill userId for known demo staff

Co-authored-by: groombook-engineer[bot] <groombook-engineer@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Paperclip <noreply@paperclip.ing>
Co-authored-by: Barkley Trimsworth <barkley@groombook.farh.net>

packages/db/migrations/meta/_journal.json

@@ -127,6 +127,13 @@
       "when": 1774512000000,
       "tag": "0017_better_auth_tables",
       "breakpoints": true
+    },
+    {
+      "idx": 18,
+      "version": "7",
+      "when": 1774598400000,
+      "tag": "0018_backfill_staff_user_id",
+      "breakpoints": true
     }
   ]
 }